me and my husband recently had a really big falling out that caused him to go to jail and once he got out of jail he went and stayed with his mother (which is where he is still at after 4 months) he constantly calls me, text me, instant message me, and wants me to travel to visit with him on occasions.... at times i feel as though he is only using me to keep me from coming to court and he will beat his charges cause he's looking at 78 years, he always wants to know if the states attorney has contacted me and what they said, i don't know how to take him right now at this point, what should i do?Answer Question
Answer by lisa_ann_p at 5:52 PM on Mar. 24, 2009
Answer by NicholeAT at 5:53 PM on Mar. 24, 2009
Answer by Buffie95 at 5:59 PM on Mar. 24, 2009
Wow, 78 years? If he did something that serious to face that much jail time, why are you still talking to him? I've never heard of someone facing 78 years unless he has several charges that are all adding up to that number. I think you really need to ask yourself why you still have contact with this man?
Answer by legalmommy101 at 6:02 PM on Mar. 24, 2009
I'm with them, he is trying really hard to save his ass. I mean I would probably be doing the same thing. I personally wouldn't give him any information either about what you discuss with the attorneys.
Answer by xocyncyn at 6:06 PM on Mar. 24, 2009
Answer by dbarkley101306 at 6:14 PM on Mar. 24, 2009
Since he went to jail because of you two, you can file for an exparte. The judge will most likely grant your wish because of the charges he's facing. The exparte will grant you relief from him being within so many feet of you, your house and he will not be allowed to contact you at all. Call your local court house to get more details.
Answer by legalmommy101 at 6:19 PM on Mar. 24, 2009
Answer by dee778 at 6:35 PM on Mar. 24, 2009