I have done this with all of my children but sometimes the guilt of carrying this secret kills me, have you ever done this??
Asked by Anonymous at 12:06 PM on Mar. 25, 2009 in Adult Children (18+)
kyleenkolbee, you just brought tears to my eyes! I hope that my DD will someday have the same "realization" that you do. I never went behind her Dad's back because I wanted to keep secrets, I just knew that he and I had different views on what "helping the kids out" meant. Yes, it caused me years of anxiety, probably hurt our marriage, but, my kids welfare meant more to me than my marriage. There, I said it! Yes, I love my husband, dearly, but, there is a bond between a Mother and child that is unfathomable; it is ever forgiving, ever loving.
Answer by grovelady at 5:34 AM on Mar. 29, 2009
Answer by CarolynBarnett at 12:10 PM on Mar. 25, 2009
I do not do it and would not do it...I do not let people barrow money from me any ways
Answer by louise2 at 12:20 PM on Mar. 25, 2009
Answer by Praying at 2:08 PM on Mar. 25, 2009
Answer by GrnEyedGrandma at 1:23 AM on Mar. 26, 2009
Answer by mistynights234 at 12:20 PM on Mar. 26, 2009
Answer by Saralinda at 5:09 PM on Mar. 27, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 10:44 AM on Mar. 28, 2009
Answer by kyleenkolbee at 1:25 AM on Mar. 29, 2009
Answer by jesse123456 at 12:37 PM on Mar. 29, 2009
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