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Im not racist

Is it wrong that I dont want my 16 year old daughter to date a black man?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 7:42 PM on Mar. 25, 2009 in Relationships

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  • no, its not wrong, im also not racist but i see things differently.
    americansugar80

    Answer by americansugar80 at 7:43 PM on Mar. 25, 2009

  • I think so. Anytime you judge a person on color you ARE a racist. If my daughter brings home a white boy, mexican, lation, asian, indian...Its all fine for me as long as he treats her with respect and makes her happy! THAT should be your first priority.
    MamaChamp

    Answer by MamaChamp at 7:46 PM on Mar. 25, 2009

  • What are you reasons for that? Depending on your reasons...that could very well make you racist.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:46 PM on Mar. 25, 2009

  • It should be your first concern should be how he treats your daughter, if he respects her, and if he makes her happy, NOT the color of his skin.
    AdensMommy1107

    Answer by AdensMommy1107 at 7:47 PM on Mar. 25, 2009

  • If you dont think you are that is sad :( you are!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:48 PM on Mar. 25, 2009

  • You're singling out a particular group because of the color of their skin.

    From Merriam-Webster online dictionary:

    Racist
    2 racial prejudice or discrimination
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:49 PM on Mar. 25, 2009

  • no, its not wrong, im also not racist but i see things differently.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:50 PM on Mar. 25, 2009

  • Why is this in Just for Fun??
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:51 PM on Mar. 25, 2009

  • anon 6:49 yes my husband has nice thick luscious lips and I love it! That is sexy.

    MamaChamp

    Answer by MamaChamp at 7:52 PM on Mar. 25, 2009



  • I feel like this to sometimes it's just a phase, at least it was for me. Good luck!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:52 PM on Mar. 25, 2009

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