I told my husband to leave almost a year ago because I noticed a change in him only to find out he was having an affair. We were married for 18 yrs and have four beautiful children the youngest who is now 2. He denied everything until I spoke to the woman who worked with him and stated she was pregnant.
My husband disappeared after that for 7 months without contacting the children even though he only lives 10 minutes away. He and I only saw each other at court for the child support hearings. Its tax season and he has suddenly reappeared.
His first visit with the kids was interrupted when I received a phone call from his crazed girlfriend stating that it was her due date and he left her alone to be with my kids. He immediately left and has not seen the kids since then. In addition his baby was just born. He does call the kids but doesn't make an attempt to see them. I'm afraid that the new baby has replaced them.
Asked by Anonymous at 8:07 PM on Mar. 25, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by timelessglass at 8:14 PM on Mar. 25, 2009
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Answer by admckenzie at 9:18 PM on Mar. 25, 2009
Wow! You must be a better woman than I am because I would have stiffed them both in court and took every pretty penny both of them make for the next couple of years. You can sue your spouse and the other "person" for damages, you did know that right? Sorry you are going through this but I agree that it's better to have no father than a father like that. Cut him loose and tell him every mom on cafemom thinks he's a BIG ole A$$hole!
Answer by legalmommy101 at 9:21 PM on Mar. 25, 2009
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Answer by melody77 at 10:13 PM on Mar. 25, 2009