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Asked by mammamakayla at 2:35 PM on Mar. 26, 2009 in Relationships

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  • Try to be spontaneous. Meet him at the door in a sexy new nightie. Or upstairs in ur room if ur kids are older. Try going shopping for some "toys", massage oils etc. Some couples like to shop for that stuff together, some like to shop seperately then surprise each other. Write little notes if he takes a lunch to work and sneak them in there, or some hot little promise of something u will do to him later, or something u want him to do. Try planning to go away for a night at a local hotel with a whirlpool or jacuzzi suite. Our fav is $86 a night with my sams club discount, it has a huge jacuzzi in the room, a big flat screen tv in front of the bed on the wall, so bring in some fav food to eat together, watch a movie and jump in the jacuzzi.

    Answer by lakegeorge_mom at 2:46 PM on Mar. 26, 2009

  • Beat advice I give for spicing up relationships is to do the things you did when you first started dating. The longer you've been with someone the easier it is for sex to become routine... before your hubby comes home, arrange for your kids to have a playdate or stay with a relative (without him knowing of course) when he comes home, be either naked or in something sexy, drop to your knees, undo his pants.. you know the rest.. you know stuff like that.

    Answer by alinker at 3:05 PM on Mar. 26, 2009

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