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My Boyfriend NEVER cums.....

Is this healthy???? I mean im not complaining because we can go for a long time but it just never seems to happen. Am i not pleasing him enough??

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 4:00 PM on Mar. 26, 2009 in Relationships

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  • I have never heard of that before? He might need to see a Dr. if he truly NEVER ever cums. Does he eventually, it just takes a long time?
    mom2twobabes

    Answer by mom2twobabes at 4:03 PM on Mar. 26, 2009

  • Maybe he has a medical problem. I'm sure it has nothing to do with you not pleasing him enough.

    legalmommy101

    Answer by legalmommy101 at 4:04 PM on Mar. 26, 2009

  • Mine can't either. It's not you. It's him. Mine has high blood pressure. It started that he couldn't cum then he couldn't stay hard without oral stimulation so no penetration after a couple of years. He's upset but we work around it.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 4:04 PM on Mar. 26, 2009

  • He may have some kinda problem. Does he drink a lot? I know when my love is drunk (not often) he has a hard time finishing. When i asked about that, i heard that it is very normal. Try giving him a B-job before hand, i know this will make my guy cum a lot faster if i do that before the deed. How old is he, and are you sure he is not rubbing one out before you get home? Because if he masterbates on his own a lot, that can make it harder for him to cum if he already had that day.
    samurai_chica

    Answer by samurai_chica at 4:04 PM on Mar. 26, 2009

  • he's 24 and he just never nuts well at least not when we're having sex No matter how long we go i have yet to see him cum. But I've never given him a B-J maybe that would speed up the process
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:41 PM on Mar. 26, 2009

  • Maybe do the bj before sex to speed up the process? Not sure, but enjoy it!
    jeanclaudia

    Answer by jeanclaudia at 4:49 PM on Mar. 26, 2009

  • could be a medical problem .

    http://www.male-orgasmic-disorder.com/treatment-male-orgasmic-disorder-3.html
    dee778

    Answer by dee778 at 1:30 PM on Mar. 27, 2009

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