Ok long story short, bil and ex-girlfriend broke up when our niece was 2 months old. Bil was cheating and generally being a d**k. Bil is one of those I will be a good dad when it is convenient to me kind of things, when he gets atention for it, and GF doesnt let him take baby for several months so when he sees her it is with the ex also and sio he chose not to see her at all. Now she started working againa and is a different shift from bil so she wants him to babysit for her and he is saying no I wont because you wouldnt let me see her for so long. I still talk to the ex, I stay out of it, dont offer my opinion (even though I really agree with her on stuff she goes about it the wrong way and can be really evil about it too, lying and saying he isnt dad, and she has a bf that is dad to her but she isnt dating anyone), but I still get to see her, I am the only one that gets to see her. Cont in reply...
Answer by Buffie95 at 6:36 PM on Mar. 26, 2009
Answer by AK_aries at 5:05 PM on Mar. 26, 2009
Do what is in your heart to do. You don't owe anyone anything. It sounds like your BIL is just worried about himself and his image and same way with the MIL. If you want to keep things kosher with the woman so you get to see your niece then go for it and tell MIL and BIL to kiss your a$$.
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