It's on my female doctor. I see her often and we are close. I'm married to man & have never been with a female. I'm finding it hard to hide & I cannot change doctors.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 7:33 PM on Mar. 26, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by BubNSoap at 7:37 PM on Mar. 26, 2009
Let's be honest here..you can always change doctors. I think it's normal to have a crush and especially on a doctor. Sometimes people begin to have feelings for people that work in professions of helping us like doctors and therapist. They listen to what we have to say, they make us feel important and they might even relieve us from stresses. If you feel uncomfortable knowing you have these feelings, then I would suggest you find another doctor to go to. Just try to analyze why you have these feelings towards her and are you lacking that in your marriage?
Answer by legalmommy101 at 7:38 PM on Mar. 26, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 7:47 PM on Mar. 26, 2009
Answer by legalmommy101 at 7:50 PM on Mar. 26, 2009
As long as you don't see yourself ever cheating with her, a girl crush is innocent. IMO
Answer by Anonymous at 7:51 PM on Mar. 26, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 7:56 PM on Mar. 26, 2009
Well..I'm not a therapist so I can't tell you how to get rid of a crush. Your therapist knows you better than I do so I'm going to assume that your therapist has your best interest at heart and really doesn't want to see you get mixed up in something that could hurt you or your family in the long run.
Answer by legalmommy101 at 7:59 PM on Mar. 26, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 8:01 PM on Mar. 26, 2009
If she's inappropriate with you, what makes you think you are the only one? Just a thought. The bottom line is...you obviously don't want this crush to go away or you would find a way to stop the innapproiate actions between you both. If you want it to stop, you can make it stop and only you know how. I can tell you that ending this innapproiate relationship is probably for the best. What would happen if another doctor found out about what she's doing? What about if your hubby found out? Your marriage is on the line here and her entire career is on the line. If she's willing to risk it then it's on her but you should not continue this with her until you have filed for divorce.
Answer by legalmommy101 at 8:07 PM on Mar. 26, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 8:13 PM on Mar. 26, 2009