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HOW CAN I GET MY HUSBAND INTERESTED IN SEX AGAIN?

WEVE ONLY BEEN TOGETHER 2 YEARS AND WE HAVE A BABY FIXING TO BE 1 AND ALREADY THE SEX IS GONE. IM ONLY 23 AND HES 28. WHATS GOING ON? HE SAYS HES TIRED AND I KNOW HES NOT CHEATING ON ME BECAUSE HES ALWAYS HOME WITH ME.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 12:47 AM on Mar. 27, 2009 in Relationships

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  • hey. im actually wondering the same thing. im 22 and he is almost 25. we are young...what happened? he tells me the same excuses. tired. dont feel good. and whatever else..
    i wish i could help u but im in the same situation .. You are'nt the only one
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:49 AM on Mar. 27, 2009

  • He may really just be tired or depressed. Men are no different then women in the fact that things in their every day life can affect their sexual arousal or desire. Create a day for him where he just gets to relax and not think of financial issues, or anything else for the day. Then that night put on something you know he will think is sexy and do a strip tease for him. Give him a massage while stroking his legs and inner thighs... Try looking at his life and what's goin on everyday to make him have no desire.
    bubblycute

    Answer by bubblycute at 12:51 AM on Mar. 27, 2009

  • This is sooo very common with new parents. Children, work and home are tough jobs. ..dont' worry about it. It will all come together! It is not you! Try buying some fun toys and sexy outfits to light the fires again. Grab a babysitter for the nite and go wild! Once the spark is set...you will be back in the swing of things before ya know it! Most of all....have fun!
    MommasCooCoo

    Answer by MommasCooCoo at 12:55 AM on Mar. 27, 2009

  • I love this question... first of all - what are you doing to get him interested... you can just say your interested over dinner or something... wait till friday night- send the baby away get a pizza or something quick and get home early so you can get in sexy panties before he gets home.. so right when he opens the door its the first thing he see's.. i've noticed that if you get going right when he gets home he doesn't get a second to just sit there and find interest in other stuff... or .. you can always wake him up in the morning or middle of the night... my husband says men always want sex.. even when he is tired he wants it.. he just doesn't want to be on top.. and doesn't always want to focus on making me cum- thats when he's really tired.. so get on top, cum quick.. and do it often.. its like going to the gym the more you go the more you want to go
    Jan0609momma

    Answer by Jan0609momma at 1:07 AM on Mar. 27, 2009

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