I am tired of when I disciplian my kids my husband will pull said child into another room and bad mouth me! I walked in last night after tell my daughter for the hundred time to stop doing what she's doing. And if she continues she will pay for the damages to the house she is causing. So I go upstairs and come back down walk into the computer room behind my husband's back to hear him say you know your mom's bipolar (Ahh no I'm not) and she needs professional help so just ignore her. WTF! He says he was just trying to lighten the mood! At my expense? He says I'm being to beotchy with the kids and I hurt him. Hurt him? His dang name never came up in the conversation with my daughter. And no matter how mad I am at him I never pull the kids aside and says your dad's an ahole or this and that.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:11 AM on Mar. 27, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by lady-J-Rock at 10:00 AM on Mar. 27, 2009
He's trying to be the favorite parent. He knows you'll be the bad guy, while he takes the easy job of being the all-around-good-guy. I agree, ask him.. rather TELL him.. he gets to be the disciplinarian while you stand by and do nothing to help him. But that means you really have to do nothing. Let him learn his lesson.
Answer by s.teph at 11:18 AM on Mar. 27, 2009
I guess he doesn't realize that....by disrespecting you, your kids will grow to hate him for that very reason. That is a big issue and not one that I suggest you putting up with for one day longer. Call around and find a couples therapist for the both of you. It might make a difference if someone else puts him in his place.
Answer by legalmommy101 at 11:32 AM on Mar. 27, 2009
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