Ok, my DH makes 87k a year, and I make 32k a year. He's wanting me to split the bills in half...I'm like WTF, I barely bring home 2k a month and our bills are over 6k a month....
We have a 4 month old, and I have to buy her new clothes because she constantly grows out of them, not expensive. But, damn. I've told him I can't afford to split everything in half. He told me "get a second job or else".
We've already filed taxes and the money we got back, he kept it all and won't give me any of it. I told him to take my half and pay the bills for a month so I could save...he said it was his money and he'll spend it on whatever he wants.
OMG, I just pray that God gives me the strength not to beat his ass.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:46 AM on Mar. 27, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by matobe at 9:58 AM on Mar. 27, 2009
I am truly sorry you are finding out your DH is an a-- ,,,after you had a child by him...I personally would not put up with that..You are a married couple ,,not room mates. I believe in marriage the money should be both of your..Not mine is mine yours is yours...I think you need to take a hard look at your marriage..I would not stay with a man that is like that. Selfish with his money
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