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could you be friends with someone you don't trust?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 11:10 AM on Mar. 27, 2009 in Relationships

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  • No, never. Just like I could never be married to someone that I didn't trust.
    kboney29

    Answer by kboney29 at 11:11 AM on Mar. 27, 2009

  • Acquaintances, yes. I have plenty of "acquaintances" that i don't trust. But FRIENDS....no way. I don't have time to waste on fake friendships.

    samurai_chica

    Answer by samurai_chica at 11:14 AM on Mar. 27, 2009

  • I agree with samurai chica
    abbynzachsmommy

    Answer by abbynzachsmommy at 11:16 AM on Mar. 27, 2009

  • There are different levels of friendship. I'd call and untrustworthy one an acquantance.
    EireLass

    Answer by EireLass at 11:19 AM on Mar. 27, 2009

  • ya i also agree.i had a very good friend that did some things against my back and i tell you it felt awful so i will say hi but good (bff) again never////unless i must say i do give people second chances she showed me that i could trust her but thats not going to happen.
    snowmom974

    Answer by snowmom974 at 11:21 AM on Mar. 27, 2009

  • Depends on what you mean by TRUST, and FRIEND..Would I trust them with my kids, no. Would I trust them with my car, no. Would I trust them with a secret.. maybe. It would depend on what you mean by trust.. and what you mean by friend. I have "friends" that I don't necessarily love or even like all of the time.. that doesn't mean they're bad people, it just means that I don't agree with them all the time, or that they have habits I hate, or have some growing up to do etc. It doesn't mean I won't be friends with them, it means I engineer situations so that I don't have to be put in an awkward position. Like I rarely have those particular people over as a guest in my home. I never ask those people to babysit etc. Things like that.

    s.teph

    Answer by s.teph at 11:22 AM on Mar. 27, 2009

  • No. I have a person I know but don't trust and I don't consider her my friend.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:22 PM on Mar. 27, 2009

  • No. That's why I have almost no female friends. I don't trust females.
    Chrissy629

    Answer by Chrissy629 at 10:38 PM on Mar. 27, 2009

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