Okay, so a couple nights ago my husband and I were having a few drinks. Lately I've noticed he hasn't been that interested in me. So I asked him if he was interested in anyone else. And after beating around the bush he admitted he likes a girl at work. One thing that really worries me is that I saw her today for the first time, and she is not his type at all.. (or so I thought.) So I'm thinking it might be more of an emotional attatchment rather than a physical one.
It's not like he cheated on me or anything, I just feel really insecure about myself now. I've told him this , but then he just gets sad.. I don't want to dig myself any deeper. We have a great relationship, but I've been crying while I'm by myself everyday now since I found out..
Should I just let it go? I just want to know if any of you have had a crush on someone other than your husband.. or if this is a red flag.. thanks.
Asked by Anonymous at 3:20 PM on Mar. 27, 2009 in Relationships
Most women will tell you that a man having an emotional attachment to another woman is worse than having just a sexual relationship. People can have no strings attached sex but when someone has developed an emotional attachment to someone else it's a huge red flag. Seek therapy ASAP for you both. Men won't leave a good marriage for a screw but they will leave a good marriage when they are deeply emotionally involved with someone else.
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