My husband recived a text message at like 10 one night and didn't want to open it he told me that he didn't recognize the number. I let it go until I got the phone bill and noticed that he called that number on 2 different ocassions and had texted the number an hour before reciving that 10:00 unknown number one. I know that he is lying about not knowing who it is. I know that there is something going on and I just don't know the severity of it. What would you do?? We have a 2 month old daughter and he has a son from another relationship.
Asked by Anonymous at 4:17 PM on Mar. 27, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by scaredmommy08 at 5:26 PM on Mar. 27, 2009
Answer by admckenzie at 4:19 PM on Mar. 27, 2009
Answer by DDry at 4:22 PM on Mar. 27, 2009
I agree call the number and find out who it is and then deal with him. Make sure you get as much detail as possible so he can't change the story. GL
Answer by legalmommy101 at 4:23 PM on Mar. 27, 2009
Answer by AK_aries at 4:24 PM on Mar. 27, 2009
Answer by momjoy1027 at 4:26 PM on Mar. 27, 2009
Answer by moniquinha at 4:27 PM on Mar. 27, 2009
My suggestion is to ask him about it. Dont go to him all angry and confrontational.. this will put him on the defense.. but ask him if he is happy in your relationship. if he says no.. this will allow you to talk about what is going on. If he says he is happy, explain to him that you found the number more than once and you need to know why he lied. Try to stay as calm as possible. I know the first reaction is usually to run him over with a truck and ask questions later (totally kidding) but really if you approach it calmly he will most likely be more comfortable being open and honest if he knows youre not going to flip out. I will be praying for you. Hope it turns out to be a surprise he has been planning for you or something like that! Best wishes!
Answer by Tzutchka at 4:28 PM on Mar. 27, 2009
Answer by NicholeAT at 4:29 PM on Mar. 27, 2009
Answer by hot-mama86 at 4:38 PM on Mar. 27, 2009