How did you cope with a separation/divorce? What were the circumstances? Was it your decision or his? What did you do to deal with the unimaginable range of motions that come along with this?Answer Question
Answer by Kbmancine at 5:27 PM on Mar. 27, 2009
Answer by scaredmommy08 at 5:30 PM on Mar. 27, 2009
Answer by sophiafarris at 5:33 PM on Mar. 27, 2009
It's pretty damn hard. I would compare it to the death of a close family member. There are books and websites that can help you atleast know what you are facing. There are several stages that people go though when they are going through a divorce. I went through all of them just not in the order described. I'm not sure if it matters who starts the divorce but I was the one who left him and "I" was the one that felt like a failure. Some days you love them and other days you hate them. Some days you cry all day and some days you are pi$$ed off at the world and then some days you are fine. Even when you know the marriage isn't working out and you've done everything possible to save it or change things, you still feel like a failure. I'm proof that you can get through it and you can find love again after divorce. I tell people to get therapy asap because I didn't and things would have been better for me if I had.
Answer by legalmommy101 at 5:37 PM on Mar. 27, 2009
Answer by kathyartist2007 at 6:51 PM on Mar. 27, 2009