Heres the situation, I would just like your opinion on how you would feel or react. My father in law called me yesterday and said hi Lauren! (my name is Megan. )Lauren is my husband of 4 years ex girlfriend. So he apologized. He called me back the same day to aplogize again and in the middle of it he said ("you are so special to me Lauren) !!! So I called him out on it and and he played it off as a "senior moment he's 55. I was hurt and still am. He feels really bad, but twice what the ......? Please help ladies, my husband is upset with him too.
You have to let it go. This has happened to me by my FIL once, who did it totally by accident. I let it go after the apology. When I was about 8.5 months pregnant my husband's good Marine buddy was staying for a visit. He called me the ex wife's name. I went into the shower and cried (hormones and all), but I was very hurt. Tim apologized and my husband gave him hell too. Now it is a running joke. Yes, it hurts, but you are in control of how far you take it. Be the better and bigger person and move on. If it is done all the time, then I'd suspect underlying issues. All of us have a past and sometimes the past innocently mixes with the present.
Answer by Teachermom01 at 1:07 PM on Mar. 28, 2009
I think it is just a habit. I sometimes call my sister's fiance by her ex's name. I don't mean to do it but sometimes it just slips. I would just tell you FIL how much it hurts when he calls you by her name. Also, if he is doing this with other people's names or misplacing things it could be more serious such as early signs of Altzehimers.
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