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How long were your SO and you dating before you knew you were going to marry him?

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Asked by Kenzies_mama at 3:00 PM on Mar. 28, 2009 in Relationships

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  • 6m into the relationship. almost at the 5yr mark come june....and not married yet.
    we met and have never spent a night apart since.

    Answer by Shannon85 at 3:04 PM on Mar. 28, 2009

  • we meet and got together on july 7th of 2007 and we got marriedn september 30th of 2008.

    Answer by beachbabewdj08 at 3:05 PM on Mar. 28, 2009

  • We met when I was 15 and married at 22. I would say probably about 17-18, I knew.

    Answer by hdb at 3:08 PM on Mar. 28, 2009

  • HMMMM......6 years, and 2 children later I'm still undecided...

    Answer by debbie1972 at 3:11 PM on Mar. 28, 2009

  • we met on New Years of 08, started talking around February, and got married in April 08. Probably sometime around Valentines I knew.

    Answer by serioussifL at 3:14 PM on Mar. 28, 2009

  • 12 days.

    Answer by JulieJacobKyle at 3:22 PM on Mar. 28, 2009

  • We never dated. We knew each other for three years and all we ever did was hang out together. One day, out of the blue, he produces a ring. We had never kissed, never said "I love you", but it was obvious in that moment that I did love him and that we belonged together. It'll be ten years together in November. I made the right choice.

    Answer by Fistandantalus at 3:50 PM on Mar. 28, 2009

  • We are not married yet - not even a proposal. However, I knew I wanted to marry him most definitely after 18 months. We were both getting over issues from the past and that is when it became absolutely clear to me. I know that I will be with him the rest of my life.

    Answer by kathyartist2007 at 10:50 PM on Mar. 28, 2009

  • Well, DH told me 6 weeks after we started e-mailing (and no, I am not an Internet bride...I know his parents quite well!) that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me!

    For me, it was about another 2 weeks after that I knew for sure he was the one!

    We started e-amiling in October 1999, dating April 2000, engaged July 2000 and married April 2001!

    8 years next month and he's still so sweet, sexy and the best thing that ever happened to me!

    Answer by tlkmom at 10:56 PM on Mar. 28, 2009

  • im not married, but 9 years later im pretty damn sure we will make it anoth 9 (atleast)haha.

    Answer by jbirchard at 7:21 PM on Mar. 29, 2009

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