So and I have been having alot of problems and started talking last nite and I had to stop as I was getting too upset(7 1/2 months preg) so we decided to continue it another day. We have been being very good to each other, even tho things are still up in the air and I wondered what others thoughts were on this. Is it wrong to table something for the sake of keeping the peace for a few days?
Answer by Anonymous at 9:51 PM on Mar. 28, 2009
No, I think that if you able to have a good couple days, there is nothing wrong with putting the discussion on pause. As long as niether of you is festering over it, you will probably be able to have a more constructive conversation when you do get back to it. Also, just make sure you do go back to it, if you both agree it was a mountain out of mole hill and doesn't need further discussion fine, just be careful you're not putting anything important on the back burner and leaving it there, because then someone will end up resentful that it wasn't ever dealt with. If it works for you, go for it!
Answer by BubbaLuva at 6:48 PM on Mar. 28, 2009
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Answer by sunshine31 at 9:20 PM on Mar. 28, 2009
It's a great idea. Just come back and discuss things when you and him aren't hot under the collar. You guys will probably have a good relationship.
Answer by dreyamom at 11:17 PM on Mar. 28, 2009