I have been married for almost three years, their bm past about nine years. when my husband disipline her for things that she has done, she says that he has change because of me. She is 17, don't want to be told what to do, just want to do whatever she wants to do. I told my husband that she needs some help, he needs to help her deal with her death. She says she hate me, and she don't want to live here anymore. Mind you, I don't do the disciplining he do. I'm thinking that she will never accept me, which is okay, but sometimes she wants love from me, that is to hugs, lay on my shoulder, the kind of love that a mother shows her child. Then when she can't have her way then she turns agaisnt me. How can I continue to show and give her love, Then she turns agaisnt me, HELP!!!
Asked by Anonymous at 8:16 PM on Mar. 28, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by nannabart at 9:08 PM on Mar. 28, 2009
Answer by admckenzie at 8:20 PM on Mar. 28, 2009
Answer by hautemama83 at 8:27 PM on Mar. 28, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 8:32 PM on Mar. 28, 2009
She's treating you like every teenager treats their biological Mom at that age. Don't sweat it...ok I never treated my Mom like that. However, most teens I've ever known treat their parents like that at that age. She needs to deal with her mother's death but the rest I think comes with the age.
Answer by Navymama at 8:40 PM on Mar. 28, 2009