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Please dont make this into a big thing. Just a simple question: no bashing

For all the strictly religious people who view homosexuality as a sin: What would you do if your child turns out gay? Would you disown them or accept their lifestyle choice and continue to love them regardless?

And please NO BASHING. I am sincerely curious as to how an extremely religious family would react.

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Asked by Anonymous at 3:41 PM on Mar. 29, 2009 in Religion & Beliefs

Answers (27)
  • i would never never di own my son and will allways love him even if i dont love the things he not sure really how i would handle it though

    Answer by mommymeg03 at 3:42 PM on Mar. 29, 2009

  • I am very religious and nothing my children ever do would make me not love them.

    I would be disappointed and sad. But I would love them forever!

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:43 PM on Mar. 29, 2009

  • I would never disown my own child. I would just tell them that i don't agree with it but I cant force him would be really hard so I have no clue how I would respond

    Answer by luvsgriffin at 3:44 PM on Mar. 29, 2009

  • I am not sure for I hope I have a while for this lol mine are 4 yrs and 15 months. But I would probably very upset, but there would be nothing I could do about it because they can just sneak around and do it behind my back. I rather them not hide anythinf I want them to be able to come to me and tell me anything for I couldnt talk to my mom about things. I would be very upset, but I would accept the fact that they were like that. I would let them know that I still love them. I would never stop loving my children no matter what they did or do.

    Answer by mommy5409 at 3:45 PM on Mar. 29, 2009

  • i would pray for them , but they are who they are and NOTHING changes that.
    hubbie says he would disown but i dont think he would.

    Answer by dita at 3:53 PM on Mar. 29, 2009

  • I consider myself to be a quality christian ,,,I was taught to love the sinner and hate the sin,,,,as a parent I would be disapointed ,,but I hope I would be big enough to accept whoever he or she was ,,,,,I would definately pray a lot !

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:57 PM on Mar. 29, 2009

  • I would explain how it does not fit into God's plans and why. I love my children,but i refuse to let the devil lie to them or others.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:03 PM on Mar. 29, 2009

  • It isn't a lifestyle choice. Its who they are.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:05 PM on Mar. 29, 2009

  • anon at 4:05 thats your personal idea. Others dont agree with it.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:06 PM on Mar. 29, 2009

  • When did you choose to be straight anon06

    Answer by mum-to-be-at-18 at 4:09 PM on Mar. 29, 2009

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