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my twin daughters are turing 5 in May. one wants a barbie themed party and one refuses to have barbie and wants bratz what should i do

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Asked by pamsmom05 at 4:35 PM on Mar. 29, 2009 in School-Age Kids (5-8)

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  • Combine both themes. What's the big deal with that...they each get to pick their own theme.

    Answer by mamaada at 4:42 PM on Mar. 29, 2009

  • I wouldn't combine, that would be a disaster.

    I would use something completely different that they both will at least semi-enjoy. Like a pink and purple theme, or a pirate theme. You can get some great ideas from the Oriental Trading Co.


    Answer by Anonymous at 4:46 PM on Mar. 29, 2009

  • Being a Twin myself growning up with my Twin Sister "EVEYTHING" was the same. Please honor your twins wishes and let tem having their own Barbie / Bratz party. I would just order or make a sheet cake and decorate half in barbie the other half in bratz. Buy 1/2 and 1/2 party hats etc. The invitations I would just get creative and combine bratz and barbie on the invites too.

    Answer by headangus at 4:48 PM on Mar. 29, 2009

  • hmmm i would try and get ideas like what anon said. like a hawaii themed party where they are hula girls or something.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:48 PM on Mar. 29, 2009

  • Like the first commet combine them.

    Answer by Blesstravelmom at 5:01 PM on Mar. 29, 2009

  • how about lots of hot pink and purple for streamers balloons plates etc, then get a big mylar ballon for each of them, one barbie one bratz

    Answer by KateKevinAdopt at 5:46 PM on Mar. 29, 2009

  • Whose the oldest go with her and next time go with the one that followed right behind :) GL

    Answer by Butterfly1108 at 5:55 PM on Mar. 29, 2009

  • If they weren't twins, and had different birthdays what would you do? Still want them to have the same theme?

    They are individuals, they are not a "set". They have individual personalities and different likes/dislikes.

    Respect them.

    Let them each choose what they want. There is no reason why they can't each have what they want at one party. A few decorations of each theme, each of them can have their own cake, their own flavor and enjoy themselves.

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:56 PM on Mar. 29, 2009

  • sorry, but i wouldnt let my daughters play with bratz anything

    Answer by jbirchard at 7:05 PM on Mar. 29, 2009

  • i would do both, as all the posters have said.

    Answer by aly38914290 at 7:26 PM on Mar. 29, 2009

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