ok...my boyfriend and i always go over his friend's house over the weekends every time they win a soccer game.thing is every time i try mentioning something to him about the baby,for example,like when she's moving around(since she just started moving a few days ago),he shows that he doesn't care in front of them.and when i try talking to him about it he always asks me how i would even think that he doesn't care.that if he didn't he wouldn't even be here.but he should at least show it right?i sometimes think it's because he's with his friends but even his friends seem more interested in how the baby's doin then he does...
what should i do?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:03 PM on Mar. 29, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by gdiamante at 11:05 PM on Mar. 29, 2009
Answer by Precious333 at 11:06 PM on Mar. 29, 2009
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Answer by Shannon85 at 11:15 PM on Mar. 29, 2009
Answer by lisa_ann_p at 11:18 PM on Mar. 29, 2009
It sound like he is alittle scared to be a parent. Just like most people are. And if sound like he is trying to be a bit macho around his buddies. My husband did this with our first. Find some good times for him to feel the baby move. I think when you are laying down to go to sleep is a good time. You can spoon with him and place his hand on to stomach so he can feel the baby move. Later on after the baby is born he will appreciate you wanting him to feel the baby because he will realise that little life was moving inside of you.
Answer by JenFunSniffer at 1:14 AM on Mar. 30, 2009