She has cut me out of my grand childs life and she has cut my son off from all of his friends and family. My grand daughter is almost 18 monthes old and I have never met her. My heart is broken. Please comment, I need some honest input.Answer Question
Answer by CarrienKansas at 9:16 AM on Mar. 30, 2009
Answer by Madge1428 at 9:19 AM on Mar. 30, 2009
I think before anyone can answer whether she is crazy or not we need more information. Was there any family drama going on before the baby was born? Did the two of you get along before? It sounds to me like there is some unresolved issues that are not being presented. I think the first thing you need to do is try and talk to both of them. If they will not talk with you in person or over the phone than write a letter. Tell them that you miss them both and that you would really like to build a relationship with all of them, but whatever you do do not make accusations that will only make things worse.
Answer by maddiemygirl at 9:21 AM on Mar. 30, 2009
Answer by tabbys4 at 9:26 AM on Mar. 30, 2009
Answer by mamaada at 9:27 AM on Mar. 30, 2009
Answer by okmommy08 at 9:34 AM on Mar. 30, 2009
Answer by grammylynn911 at 9:37 AM on Mar. 30, 2009
Without more information, it is difficult to say. My SO has not allowed his Mother into my step Son's life either. She hasn't seen him since he was born. My SO has never explained to his Mother why he has made this choice & I really don't want to go into all of it here, but there are good reasons, and I cannot blame him at all. For my SO cutting his Mother out of his life was one of the healthiest choices he has made. His Mother often reaches out to me in emails & on myspace but, he has asked that I not try to explain to "why". I see the pain she is going through but, this is her fault. Was your relationship with your DD strained before the baby? I would ask her why, & listen very carefully to what her reasons are. I'm sorry this is happening, I hope something changes for you.
Answer by BubbaLuva at 9:39 AM on Mar. 30, 2009
Answer by okmommy08 at 9:40 AM on Mar. 30, 2009
Answer by grammylynn911 at 9:43 AM on Mar. 30, 2009
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