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How do u be a good step-mom when you and the mom have a bad history?
And start a good relationship with the mom?
I am a step-mom and my children have a step-mom. I think the most important thing is to let the kids become adjusted to the situation on their time. You can't force them to develop a relationship before their ready, it only makes them feel more threatened. As far as their mom, it takes time as well. Divorce is hard on everyone involved and becoming a new family takes time for all to adjust. Just respect their mother and her wishes as best you can, when she knows you are not trying to take her place and are there for her children, things will fall into place.
Answer by annie6303 at 1:56 PM on Mar. 31, 2009
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Answer by momofsaee at 1:16 PM on Mar. 31, 2009
its very hard to get along with their ex-wife especially when they are always butting in just to cause problems but not to help with the kids I try my best to be a good step-mom i wasn't perfect but that's because my husband never game me my place but besides that the two oldest kids are the best i tried and financially i did everything i could but when it came to making decisions i couldn't which i respected its just really hard but the kids are the inocent ones
Answer by R3DR0S3 at 10:02 PM on Mar. 31, 2009
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