Sooo....I am a soon to be divorcee, and my SO wants me to change my name back to my maiden name. He happens to know my husband. What I want to know is if it is really that big of a deal? Why spend money that could be used on something else, when in a few years we plan on getting married? He says it's cause he hates hearing it when we go places, and "why do you want a name that reminds you of bad memories". I am of the opinion, that I've had the name for awhile now, and it's just a name for me, it doesn't mean anything lol. I just wanted opinions ladies...
he is just bieng insecure do what u think is right and be strong about it because if just a symple name bothers him and your not even married yet imagine what his going to want to change once you are..I meet this lady once she was married for the 4 time and she told me before i got married dont change your last name it will just cost you once you have to change it again keep yours always it was funny at the time she told me but it makes sense now
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Answer by Shannon85 at 1:09 PM on Mar. 31, 2009
If you want to keep the name keep it. Be strong. Your SO isn't the one who to go thru all the legalities of changing a last name. Letting everyone know of the change is time consuming . Plus you two plan to get married soon anyway. What's the difference. Tell him to get over it. But in a nice way not so matter of fact.
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