You can tell if a member has blocked you by looking at your "Blocked Users" list.
Here's how to view your "Blocked Users" list:
Go to your CafeMom homepage.
Click on the "Personal Details" button under you avatar.
Click on the "Blocked Users" link on the left side of the page.
Any member you have blocked or that has blocked you, will be listed on that page.
Hope that helps!
\The CafeMom Admin Team
at 3:51 PM on Mar. 31, 2009