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TMI?? when you have an orgasim do you cum?

I have never actually cum when Ive had sex. I feel all the other things of an orgasim but never cum. Anyone else?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 2:08 AM on Apr. 1, 2009 in Relationships

Answers (11)
  • Of course... my hubby knows how to hit the right spot everytime~
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:12 AM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • haha honestly most likely not since im not sure.. never really got the difference
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:15 AM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • I have maybe twice in my life. Both times with my husband.
    Mom1Stepmom1

    Answer by Mom1Stepmom1 at 2:18 AM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • Yes, almost everytime.. Sometimes hubby can get overexcited.. lol!
    soonmommyof3

    Answer by soonmommyof3 at 2:58 AM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • What do you mean? Isn't cumming the same as having a climax, just a crude vulgar word for the same thing?
    isabellalecour

    Answer by isabellalecour at 8:49 AM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • yeah, i thought it was the same
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:41 AM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • Some women can actually "ejaculate" and that was what I assume the difference here was.
    Mom1Stepmom1

    Answer by Mom1Stepmom1 at 10:02 AM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • MY guy makes me do both that's why I love him
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:57 AM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • first of all, for the person that said "MY guy makes me do both that's why I love him"...wow! didn't know that was the basis of love! (and if it is, leave now, sex won't carry you through life's hard times!)

    ANYWAYS! I thought "cumming" and having an orgasm were the same thing...lol. This is going to be TMI, lol, but my "cum" is thick (thicker than male ejaculate, but not like paste or anything, lol). I don't like "squirt" all over the place, but I do "cum" everytime I have an orgasm.
    carliemarie1015

    Answer by carliemarie1015 at 1:19 PM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • sorry, "carlie" but good sex makes the relationship better. That is why it is called 'making love'. Obviously it is not the only way to show love, but a man can show how much he loves you through sex. I'm sure annoyomous loves herman for other reasons too.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:20 PM on Apr. 1, 2009

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