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What should I do??

I had sex on a drunkin' night with a friend on Jan. 28th. and now I am pregnant! I went years with no sex and then the when I decided to do it I end up preggo! I am turning 40 in June and I don't want a baby. What am I supposed to do now?

 
Gigi1969

Asked by Gigi1969 at 3:05 AM on Apr. 1, 2009 in Just for Fun

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Answers (13)
  • Ha Ha gigi I call april fools you just said the other day you haven't had sex in 3 years (i believe it was) I know years was there lol
    JAJA_Steele

    Answer by JAJA_Steele at 4:30 AM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • I call April Fools.
    toriandgrace

    Answer by toriandgrace at 3:07 AM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • Just email me the baby when you have it, I'll keep it
    ronjwake

    Answer by ronjwake at 3:10 AM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • GiGi I call April Fools too! :)
    You are always online when I am..lol what time is it where you live?
    twinmommy2009

    Answer by twinmommy2009 at 3:11 AM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • LOL...well if it is true, I would love to adopt. :)
    SusieD250

    Answer by SusieD250 at 3:12 AM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • This is a situation nobody can tell you what to do. I can say that alot of women on here are going to suggest you keep the baby. Others will say it's your choice. I have to say I agree, it is your choice. You could have the baby and put it up for adoption, you could abort it, or you can just accept you will be a mother and keep it. But only you know what you need to do. Being a mother at 40 isn't so bad, my twins father was 45 when I had the boys. He wasn't expecting it, but he's handled it quite well. He loves those kids, our daughter too(who came along a year later)

    Follow your heart.

    Talk to a priest, therapist, or a close friend who knows you best and tell them what you just told us. I wish I had more advice to give that was somewhat positive.

    good luck with your decision.
    CinderAmethyst

    Answer by CinderAmethyst at 3:13 AM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • No this is for real!
    Gigi1969

    Answer by Gigi1969 at 3:21 AM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • LIIIIIIIIIIAR
    alexis_06

    Answer by alexis_06 at 3:22 AM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • lol :)
    alexis_06

    Answer by alexis_06 at 3:22 AM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • I tested out my friends but then I got shy about it. I so want to cry, Why? when everyone has sex, I have it once and BAM!
    Gigi1969

    Answer by Gigi1969 at 3:23 AM on Apr. 1, 2009