There's an expression that says "you can ask me to forgive, but to ask me to forget is to ask me to give up a lifetime of experience". Are you really wanting to do that?
Also, fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. If this guy has done this several times, that means he doesn't really want you, he just wants you to want him, to be strung along and there. Sort of like a kid that doesn't want the toy, doesn't want to play with the toy, and leaves it in the back of the closet, yet, whenever anyone else notices it's there, or whenever his mom says lets give it away, he throws a fit. Why - because it's HIS, whether he wants it or not.
Sweetie - you are his toy. If he's acting this way, he doesn't want you, but he can't stand the thought that you might not want him. He wants to keep you there as his walking ego boost, his "fallback".
Or, at best, he's a flake. either way, you deserve better.
at 5:31 AM on Apr. 1, 2009