She is overbearing and nosy. Had serious empty nest syndrome when I moved out at 17. I have a 3 1/2 yr old. Have been married for 4 1/2 yrs. Been with my hubby for almost 9 yrs. I am 24 now. She use to call me Aunt to my son. She saw me pregnant with him. When he calls for me, she'll ask him what he wants. I tell her he was talking to me. Why after all this time can't she accept I am an adult? That I have a child? My own life? We weren't home much this weekend. She called everyone asking where I was. I have been standing up to her and telling her what is inappropriate. She use to say this was disrespectful. I am not mean about it. My brother defended his wife and almost gave her a nervous breakdown. Well I had enough and when she said "your asshole husband called" I almost snapped. I took a moment. Asked her why he is one now. She shook her head with no answer. I told her it was rude of her. I need to stand my ground.
Answer by MommyAddie at 11:41 AM on Apr. 1, 2009
Does she have abandonment issues? How did/does your dad treat her. Your not the problem It sound like she has deep underlying resentment and controlling issues.
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