The risk is VERY low if you have a confirmed heartbeat. We used fertility drugs & got pregnant. I miscarried, due to low progesterone. Everyone processes that loss differently. For us it was devastating. I did not even want to try again. Four weeks later I got pregnant, without fertility drugs & started using progesterone immediately. We did not celebrate. We did not get excited. We didn't even tell people until I was nearly 5 months. I did not talk to my baby like I did the first.. I cannot tell you how much I regret that. My daughter was born May 3, 3006. She is such a joy and so loved and cherished. My big regret is the joy that we robbed ourselves of during my pregnancy with her. There was nothing we could do to prevent a miscarriage, nothing we could do to protect our hearts, no matter how much we tried. We were so fearful of something that never happened. I would do things differently next time.
at 3:05 PM on Apr. 1, 2009