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How would you deal with this?

My ex-husband's niece (whom we were never around) has been sending me friend requests on Myspace. I'd denied it like a dozen times. This girl is 25, still lives withher mom and sluts around all the time. My son hangs out with her some, but always ends up complaining about her being so 'gotta have drama' all the time, then ignoring her for a couple of months because he says she's SO insanely hypocritical and throws fits about everything . Anyhow, I thought I might give her a chance, so I go check out her Myspace, and there she is (picture) with her tripple-Ds hanging out a halter top, spread eagle on a bench in some bar and a biblical scripture for her welcome comment. My stomach rolled. I want to tell her politely that I will not be her 'myspace friend' (because I can't stand her), but at the same time I don't want to hurt her feelings-cuz my son says she'll take it out on him. What do I say to her?

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 3:06 PM on Apr. 1, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (6)
  • I agree block her. No explanation needed. To give someone access to your profile is not an obligation, you are the one in control, pretty much like in your house.
    Braveheart09

    Answer by Braveheart09 at 3:16 PM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • don't say anything just block her. That way she cant add you anymore ; ]
    you dont have to explain yourself to her
    Kbmancine

    Answer by Kbmancine at 3:09 PM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • Block her. Your son knows how she is so he can eithier deal with it or not hang around her anymore.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:20 PM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • I agree with everyone else just block her if ya dont like her
    hautemama83

    Answer by hautemama83 at 4:35 PM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • If you're just trying to be polite to her, just tell her that you'd prefer to only have family on your page. Then block her, everyone else has a good point.
    heratyc

    Answer by heratyc at 5:01 PM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • I agree with the others -block her. If you want to be polite - send a message saying "sorry I only like to have my close family/friends on here- not distant aquantances (sp??)".
    MizLee

    Answer by MizLee at 9:08 AM on Apr. 2, 2009

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