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Do you think...

That a man who has certain personality traits would be more prone to cheating? Like a man who has a problem telling anyone no. He's a people pleaser, he gets influenced easily, and he will do something against his wife, morals, or personal feelings for someone else. He also disregards his wife's feelings, concerns, and every thing else. He doesn't care about anything he does to her, he doesn't care if she's hurt, & doesn't care enough to do anything for her, yet he does anything for anyone else, even if he gets screwed over, or if it's wrong. He's also very selfish, and will put his wants before his wife. To sum it up, do you think a man who is selfish, who disrespects his wife, and puts himself and anyone else before her would be prone to cheating if he ever faced the opportunity?

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Asked by Anonymous at 5:23 PM on Apr. 1, 2009 in Relationships

Answers (9)
  • No. I just think he doesn't love his wife.

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:27 PM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • Most likely. He married his wife for a reason, and it's not because of love and respect like it should be in the first place. If he does disregards her feelings like that, then he doesn't love her as much as he should.

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:31 PM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • Sounds like he doesn't have a problem telling his wife no... and sounds like he disrespects her, doesn't love her and likely doesn't even like her, so yea I think he might be prone to cheating on her because her feelings don't matter to him as you said.

    Answer by lisa_ann_p at 5:32 PM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • "No. I just think he doesn't love his wife."
    Well if a man didn't love his wife, wouldn't that mean he would be more prone to cheating?
    A man who does not love his wife does not care, respect, or consider her, and places himself before her. By that, he would be the type of man who would cheat. A man that puts his wife's needs before himself, and shows selflessness, care, and respect for her, would likely not cheat. His wife would be too important to him to cheat.

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:04 PM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • With all the other crap he's pulling, who cares if he's cheating?

    Answer by Fistandantalus at 6:39 PM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • Yep, darn right Firstandantalus!. All the other stuff would be enough to make me wanna get out!

    Answer by BubbysMom208 at 7:44 PM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • No I don't think that makes him prone to cheating

    Answer by admckenzie at 7:52 PM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • I think it just makes him an asshole.

    Answer by happyathomemum at 7:55 PM on Apr. 1, 2009

  • my mom is like that self centered to the bone and i know she has cheated in almost every relationship she was in. also she never had the guts to leave untill she had some other fool lined up and ready to be in a relationship with her .....imo you should dump him like the other posters said all that other stuff without the cheating is enough reason to leave him

    Answer by dee778 at 3:35 AM on Apr. 2, 2009

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