I have been seeing a guy for a little while now. We are in a class together in college so we see each other twice a week in class and we do something over the weekend. He is a great guy in person - I have alot of fun with him and he is very sweet and so happy. In text or IM however, he seems like SUCH an asshole. I dont know if it just because I cant hear the tone of his voice so I take things wrong - or what. But he generally pisses me off on the computer and then I get moody and piss him off. And tonight we were talking about another guy in the class who is his friend, who is always hitting on me. He kept saying "i dont care what you do" about the other guy. Saying that I could have sex with the other guy and he wouldnt care at all. Why the hell is he doing that ? It is making me think he doesnt care about me at all - but in person - like I said - he is so sweet. What the hell is going on ?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 12:15 AM on Apr. 2, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Bugsmommy1908 at 12:18 AM on Apr. 2, 2009
Answer by MirskisMA at 12:18 AM on Apr. 2, 2009
It does sound a little wierd doesn't it one concern is him to say that he doesn't care what you do..hmmmm..I would definitely bring it up. Let him know that you are concerned about the way things to "seem" to be when your with him in person & in "another way" when you two are apart & either texting or emailing. Pay close attention to how he reacts & the response that he gives you. If he continues to play around with your emotions & you don't like this type of behavior then I would just wouldn't waste anymore time with him. It can only get harder the longer you put up with it or stay in the relationship. If it's really nothing, then hopefully he will have a good explanation.
Answer by onespecialmom at 12:40 AM on Apr. 2, 2009
Answer by R3DR0S3 at 10:43 AM on Apr. 2, 2009
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