we are currently expecting and scared to tell some family about the baby.
we are married, and have other children. very stable.
HOW DO I NOT LET IT BOTHER ME!!!
i seriously want to smack them. I know how the reaction will be, and
i'm not looking foward to it. I can't share this moment with them and really
be happy. granted i live a ways a way, but the favor our oldest, and i'm
just not looking foward to them ignoring yet ANOTHER one of our
anyone else have to go through this???
Asked by Anonymous at 12:09 PM on Apr. 3, 2009 in Just for Fun
Answer by AK_aries at 12:16 PM on Apr. 3, 2009
Answer by BonesDragonDew at 12:15 PM on Apr. 3, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 12:15 PM on Apr. 3, 2009
Answer by Bmat at 12:16 PM on Apr. 3, 2009
Oh honey! I'm very sorry that you carry this anger about your family around w/ you. Listen, You ARE married & you have your own life now with your husband & your children. If this side of the family does not want to share this wonderful news then I wouldn't bother sharing it with them. If they find out later, then you can explain why you didn't want to share your news... ESPECIALLY if they are just going to be negative about it. If they are upset with you then that should be between you & them but I don't understand why they wouldn't want to be involved in children's lives. My brother & I don't have a close relationship but I am very close to his children. This is your life so enjoy this time with your husband & the people who want to celebrate it with you. Best wishes & CONGRATS!
Answer by onespecialmom at 12:21 PM on Apr. 3, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 1:04 PM on Apr. 3, 2009