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any suggestions for easing the pain of anal sex? do most women enjoy it?

i like it,it just hurts more than i would like.

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 8:13 PM on Apr. 3, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (15)
  • If it hurts a lot, it's not being done correctly. He has to go slowly at first, and I mean really slowly, start with a finger, lots of lube, and slowly he needs to get you relaxed. SLOWLY!!! If he's never done it before, tell him unequivocally that it's not the same game, not by a long shot. If you have a "Mr. Happy Toy" get it involved at the "front door" while he's fixing up the "back porch". Good luck, go slowly and to all the haters out there, you're missing out!
    Fistandantalus

    Answer by Fistandantalus at 8:24 AM on Apr. 4, 2009

  • not doing it......?
    TMJ121099

    Answer by TMJ121099 at 8:14 PM on Apr. 3, 2009

  • Get more lube!!! and play with yourself as he enters.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:15 PM on Apr. 3, 2009

  • My dh is into it...I am not. We don't do it.
    I have no advice but if it hurts why are you doing it?
    Nathskitten

    Answer by Nathskitten at 8:16 PM on Apr. 3, 2009

  • Really, what is the deal.. is everyone that bored with regular sex these days? Geez..... all these women with rectal muscle issues to come... YIKES. Your butt is not made for sex Girls!!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:17 PM on Apr. 3, 2009

  • Stick,something up his ass ,instead of yours,let him feel the pain,then I bet he wont want to do it.Anal sex is gross IMO
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:18 PM on Apr. 3, 2009

  • I told my DH if he wants anul sex. He better go find a gay guy,,or another women to do it to.
    Tried it don't like it.. Wont do it anymore.
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 8:25 PM on Apr. 3, 2009

  • well i do like it,but it just stings a little.dont answer if your not trying to help
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:29 PM on Apr. 3, 2009

  • Maybe try and apply some ambesol before you do it.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:33 PM on Apr. 3, 2009

  • just reading...I'll be having a dose tomorrow night lol
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:56 PM on Apr. 3, 2009

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