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He says, whats the point on being together?

I would like to get a weekend job that is from 8am to 8 pm, So works away from home 5 days a week...he doesnt want me to do it. I dont know what to do, I have no money( I hate asking others for money, and his money isnt considered ours its just his.), no me time, I was a very independent person before this... what do I do now? I would like to work weekends so we dont have to pay childcare. And not only that but its a good paying job as well. FYI hes the father of my child and we live together

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 9:18 PM on Apr. 3, 2009 in Money & Work

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Answers (3)
  • I stopped working to stay home and take care of my four children. Not only did I give up my job, but also my independence and who I was. After the years I became very bitter and depress. Even gained weight.

    Go for the job. Even though its work, its YOUR time to be alone and grasp a hold of the world outside of mommy life. It will help you and your relationship at the end.
    living4mykids

    Answer by living4mykids at 9:34 PM on Apr. 3, 2009

  • if you want to work then hon work my husband is the same way and he doesnt want me to work i told him get over it im working im TIRED OF ASKING YOU FOR IT and not geting anything for it so if you want too then go for it
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:32 PM on Apr. 3, 2009

  • I say do what you want to do. Stand up for yourself. If he is going to leave you just because you got a job..He is not worth being with.
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 9:34 PM on Apr. 3, 2009

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