i was recently contacted by a guy from high school of whom i HATED cause he was so mean to me. he was the doctor's son and a preppy know it all and called me names wrote nasty stuff on my locker and threw quarters at me and my female friends(meaning he thought we were 2 bit whores). well almost 10 years later he added me to myspace, he sent the request. well now he wants to drive 6 hours to come here to take me out for lunch to catch up and apologize face to face. at first he wanted to meet me someplace 2 hrs from where im at but friends told me that i should have him come here just to be safe. im still debating on whether to meet up with him, i told him i rather talk for bit then go from there. i think he does owe me a face to face apology for all the torment.
how would you handle this?
Asked by Anonymous at 7:44 PM on Apr. 4, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by SarahLeeMorgan at 7:55 PM on Apr. 4, 2009
Meet him in public,at a restaurant or something.. Listen to what he has to say. Then get up and leave.
Answer by louise2 at 7:51 PM on Apr. 4, 2009
Answer by Fistandantalus at 7:52 PM on Apr. 4, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 7:53 PM on Apr. 4, 2009
Answer by summerleigh at 7:58 PM on Apr. 4, 2009
Answer by spiritguide_23 at 8:03 PM on Apr. 4, 2009
Answer by outstandingLove at 8:10 PM on Apr. 4, 2009
There's nothing wrong with it, I don't think. keep it public, have your cell phone handy, make sure a friend/family member has your itinerary.
I hate meeting people and going out so I would just send him a note explaining how I have completely forgiven him and there is no need for him to drive all the way out here to apologize.
Answer by Kiter at 8:21 PM on Apr. 4, 2009
Answer by Crystala99504 at 9:16 PM on Apr. 4, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 9:26 PM on Apr. 4, 2009