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Before we got pregnant we were both teenagers loving the high life-literally. We both smoked pot every day we were together. As soon as I took an at home pregnancy test, I quit smoking. He did not. The entire pregnancy I was beggin him to quit; or at least cut down. A few times I thought I succeded, but he would always go back to his old ways. I threatened to leave him if he didnt quit twice, but each time he talked me out of it. Now we have our baby girl who is five weeks and we are living with my mother, and he is STILL smoking everyday. I hate it so much I cry. We are constantly fighting and it always comes back to his smoking. I am so stressed out with the new baby and he is just making things worse.
I keep thinking about leaving him-and meaning it this time. But is that really the best thing? I dont want my daughter to grow up without a father, but I dont want her to grow up with a father who is a pot head either.
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