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Does it turn you off when...

your Dh or SO starts complaining like a girl. Last night Dh and I were just starting to have sex when he comments on how bloated he feels. Other times he will sound so gay I just want to slap him. I am so turned off now I don't even want him to touch me. Am I making to much of this? Do other men say girly things that turn you off?

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:08 AM on Apr. 5, 2009 in Relationships

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  • Dh doesn't really say anything I would call "girly".

    Answer by hdb at 11:10 AM on Apr. 5, 2009

  • lmao that's kinda funny.. but no I wouldn't have felt turned off. Being bloated is not just for women. lol just accept that your man also has a feminine side to him hun!

    Answer by sweetvietchic at 11:10 AM on Apr. 5, 2009

  • Wow. ...i'm happy when my husband shows a hint of femininty. ...

    Answer by outstandingLove at 11:12 AM on Apr. 5, 2009

  • When he gets sick I dig a hole and bury him in there until he's better....get my drift?

    Answer by diamondmamma at 11:15 AM on Apr. 5, 2009

  • LOL,,Maybe he is having an identity crisis. You might need to slap it out of him.


    Answer by louise2 at 11:15 AM on Apr. 5, 2009

  • ewwwwwwwww....i don't blame you for being grossed out. usually any one who's bloated got to either burp or fart it out. make your bedroom a bloat free zone.

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:22 AM on Apr. 5, 2009

  • An honest man. I can die happy now.

    Answer by Fistandantalus at 11:33 AM on Apr. 5, 2009

  • I was just fixen to say mine's never said that, but maybe he has, but it was right after we ate, and I'm not sure if he said swollen or bloated... I'm going to have to pay attention now lol
    but if he says it right before sex, I'm going to say "why? you fixen to start your period?" and then bust up laughing

    Answer by lisa_ann_p at 11:46 AM on Apr. 5, 2009

  • nope...don't get grosed out

    Answer by worriedmommy600 at 12:17 PM on Apr. 5, 2009

  • huh

    Answer by peace423 at 12:53 PM on Apr. 5, 2009

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