My in laws daughter is seven, and I caught her and my nine yr old daughter under a blanket straddling and kissing. This isn't the first time this happened. The last time my husbands grandmother was watching them. But it was my four yr old son with the seven yr old under a blanket kissing. Of course with grannies old ways the boy got the blame. I didn't think it was something to go over board with and he said they were playing princess. I just told him never to do it again. That was almost a yr ago. And now this happened. My daughter is trying to deny the whole thing even tho I caught them. What should I do & what should I tell my daughter. Obviously they wont be left alone again while I have them but what else?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 7:32 PM on Apr. 5, 2009 in General Parenting
Answer by dragonfly7271 at 7:37 PM on Apr. 5, 2009
Ask her questions..About if she really knows what she is doing. Has she seen you and your DH doing things she shouldn't have seen? Or on TV maybe.There are always reasons why kids do things.
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Answer by mrssundin at 9:23 PM on Apr. 5, 2009
The only thing you can do is sit them down and talk to them about it, embarrassing them also is a great deterrent. I know it sounds mean but I was over at my friend's house and we caught her son (9) and my daughter (8) cuddling on the bed kissing. We were so shocked we didn't know whether to laugh or yell. We separated them and sat them down and explained how they were too young to be kissing anyone, every once in a while we will bring it up and they get so embarrassed that I don't think they will be kissing anyone again for quite a while.
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