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Is it hard for you to get the big "o"??

For me yesss... I cant just from intercourse. I have to have stimulation down there as well. I wonder how common is that?


Asked by Anonymous at 11:19 PM on Apr. 5, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (13)
  • Buy a penis ring with clitoral stimulators!
    That would probably help out a lot.
    You can find them at

    Answer by MandyOs at 3:16 PM on Apr. 6, 2009

  • i've never had an orgasm during sex, but it doesn't bother me

    Answer by llansky at 11:21 PM on Apr. 5, 2009

  • very common. I'm like you.

    Answer by admckenzie at 11:21 PM on Apr. 5, 2009

  • It takes a lot of 'work' for me and if I concentrate on it to much it lingers at the 'just about to' point. Luckily DH thinks it's 'unfair' that men go everytime and women don't so he tries to make it happen :) He's such a darling

    Answer by theheartbaby at 11:23 PM on Apr. 5, 2009

  • Most women need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. I definitely do and my dh is only too happy to oblige. If he is not then we use a vibrator on my clit until I cum.

    Answer by Nathskitten at 11:25 PM on Apr. 5, 2009

  • I always wondered if that was common too... I never used to have that problem though until after I had my daughter.

    Answer by pamelajqs at 11:26 PM on Apr. 5, 2009

  • Supposely ppl say if the women is on top its better chance, But Not working 4 me. And I really cant get it with oral.

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:29 PM on Apr. 5, 2009

  • I'm too heavy to get on top (too much fat on my legs), but I too need clitoral stimulation. Never had one the other way, but hubby keeps trying anyway!

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:47 PM on Apr. 5, 2009

  • I have to be on top and I have to concentrate really hard. It took almost 4 years for me to finally have it.

    Answer by zachysmommy04 at 11:50 PM on Apr. 5, 2009

  • I get on top and rub my clit myself..... works better!

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:51 PM on Apr. 5, 2009