I have a 14 year old teen son. Who has alot of trouble with obeying myself and his father. He is very sensitive to everything and expresses alot of his anger through verbal or physical. Such as punching the wall or anything in his path. I have had to be the middle person,to be in between his father and him. He is out of control when his anger kicks in. What do I do? Where do I turn? He is refusing to go to school now. I just dont knwo what to do. Its making me a nervous wreck, especially since eventually this will turn into a legal issue. Anyone who has or is going through this please feel free to contact me. Chat would be great. Thanks!Answer Question
Answer by Anonymous at 11:09 AM on Apr. 6, 2009
First thing I would do.Is go int his room and take everything out..Excepthis bed,dresser and cloths and school stuff..Put it in storage away from the house. Take all his privileges away. Cell, computer,allowance, everything. Then sit the whole family down and talk. Do not give his stuff back tell he start acting right and going to school.
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Answer by Kiter at 12:49 PM on Apr. 6, 2009
Love and Logic... I kid you not is AWESOME! I would read that and get everyoneinto counseling, that way you can all express your feelings in a safe environment. It sounds like this has been going on for long enough that it has effected every aspect of your life, so therefor family counseling and even individual counseling might be the best route! Good Luck!
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