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Is it attractive to you when a guy cries?

This is for a study I am doing. Does the sight of a man crying, especially if it is not over something bad or tragic, effect you in some positive way?

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:58 PM on Apr. 7, 2009 in Just for Fun

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  • Depends on what hes crying about.

    Answer by diamondmamma at 12:59 PM on Apr. 7, 2009

  • At first maybe, but then after a while it makes them look too much of a whimp, or a sissy.

    No thank you I'd perfer a masculine man....yeah! (SUCK it up)

    Answer by Butterfly1108 at 1:01 PM on Apr. 7, 2009

  • No, not attractive if it's over something stupid. There better be a good reason for him to cry not just because he fell in skinned his knee or someone called him a name. My hubby cried when DS was born...that was cute but a little shocking.

    Answer by Dayija at 1:03 PM on Apr. 7, 2009

  • Oh hell no. When I see those SNAG-types cry over stupid stuff I want to tell them to grow a set so I can give them a reason to cry.

    Answer by desert_diva at 1:03 PM on Apr. 7, 2009

  • No. Not saying men cant and shouldn't be able to cry. I'm saying its not attractive to see a boo hooing man. (sobbing uncontrollably).

    Answer by babycakes254 at 1:10 PM on Apr. 7, 2009

  • No.

    Answer by Rachel24517 at 1:18 PM on Apr. 7, 2009

  • Sometimes I wish my hubby would get upset and cry. Sometimes it seems like he has no feelings at all. Things that I find very upsetting, he seems like he doesn't even care about. So yes tears once in a while might be nice but not sobbing all the time.

    Answer by Sunfires at 1:28 PM on Apr. 7, 2009

  • No, it annoys me so I slap him again.

    Answer by BridgetC140 at 1:30 PM on Apr. 7, 2009

  • Yeah it depends. I had an ex boyfriend who used to cry when we didn't have sex for a few days. Then he would go and berate himself on how ugly or hairy I supposedly thought he was. I really wanted to slap him..In fact, I still do.

    Answer by Izsarejman at 1:31 PM on Apr. 7, 2009

  • Honestly - no

    Answer by NJMom2Tyler at 1:52 PM on Apr. 7, 2009

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