My best friend's daughter is having some problems. Her mom and dad have not been together since her birth, and they are consistently using her to get back at each other. The most recent dispute is over her mom getting re-married. She (my bf) and her new (soon-to-be) husband want to live in between where they currently live (she's in Dallas, he's in Corpus Christi, they want to live in Austin). Well, the father doesn't want her to get remarried, so he is refusing to sign a paper saying she can move (theres a location clause in the custody papers). He's a very abusive and manipulative man, and he has now scared their daughter into living with him. She sent me an email that said, "Aunt Nin, I'm so depressed all the time. I just don't want to live anymore". She's only 13. She's losing her identity and is just miserable. Could you please pray and/or send some good energy to her? I am so worried about her . . .Answer Question
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I think at 13 a child should be able to choose where they live. That is so sad for her to feel like a pawn. Either way, she will be leaving her friends at a time when she needs them the most. I will light a white, a yellow and a silver candle for her. White for healing, clarity and truth. Yellow to help her ability to persuade people and silver to help eliminate negativity and to encourage stability.
You need to keep her confidence, Yet if you feel she really may harm herself, you need to have a meeting with both parents.
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