Going incognito for this one.... sorry.
My DH is good at sex, but sometimes it gets mundane and I find myself bored. But when I try to talk to him about it, all I get is "whatever you want, I'll do". But then he don't do what I tell him I want. I'd tell him while we're doing it, but it seems that if I start talking sex talk while we're having sex he gets way too excited and BAM! it's over. Here's a couple of the problems.... he never initiates sex or if he thinks he's got me even started then he'll roll over on his back for me to do all the touching and stuff. We have 4 positions; me on top, me squatting on top, missionary or doggie (doggie only happens every now and then).
I've talked to him, so don't tell me to talk to him unless you give me specific dialogue that maybe I haven't said yet. But the ? is.... what can I do that will drive him wild, lower his inhibitions and get him to open up a bit? Alcohol don't work.
Asked by Anonymous at 2:13 PM on Apr. 8, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Adeline1210 at 2:17 PM on Apr. 8, 2009