Thats about all you can do for now. Go through the courts and get all the necessary paperwork filed and executed.
But, in the mean time...what kind of person is he? Some men need control and the more you let him bug you, the more he feels as though he has control over your life. If he is trying to "get together" with you again, then maybe you can inform him that there is no way you would ever be with him again (even create a BF if you need too) But, if hes the jealous type, then maybe let him know you aren't intrested in anything he (or any other person) has to offer right now and you are concentrating on being a mom. It depends on your past with this guy.
Good luck in the mean time!
at 8:00 PM on Apr. 8, 2009