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Seriously do you think I'm committing adultery right now?

I posted a question about marriage last night {its still posted} and I noticed alot of people are saying I'm cheating and I'm wrong. I told my husband I no longer wanted this marriage and went on my way. In the mean time I met the man that I'm with now, been together for 5 years. Do you think its wrong at all? Bashers tell it like it is!

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diamondmamma

Asked by diamondmamma at 3:49 PM on Apr. 9, 2009 in Relationships

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  • If youre seperated, you can be with ever you want.. thats NOT cheating.

    BEXi

    Answer by BEXi at 3:51 PM on Apr. 9, 2009

  • Are you still married to the first man??
    Kbmancine

    Answer by Kbmancine at 3:51 PM on Apr. 9, 2009

  • Wow, uh yeah it's still adultry but what the heck if it didn't work with hubby then why no divorce?
    mom_wrhsc

    Answer by mom_wrhsc at 3:51 PM on Apr. 9, 2009

  • Yes kbmancine I'm still married.
    diamondmamma

    Answer by diamondmamma at 3:52 PM on Apr. 9, 2009

  • to ME I dont see anything wrong with being with another man if you are not with your man, although you CANT get married to the man your with now until you divorce the first one.
    Kbmancine

    Answer by Kbmancine at 3:52 PM on Apr. 9, 2009

  • If your separated its not cheating unless you are still trying to work on the marriage.....
    worriedmommy600

    Answer by worriedmommy600 at 3:52 PM on Apr. 9, 2009

  • if you still married i consider it cheating.
    ColtsFan1912

    Answer by ColtsFan1912 at 3:52 PM on Apr. 9, 2009

  • if your not with your Husband**
    Kbmancine

    Answer by Kbmancine at 3:52 PM on Apr. 9, 2009

  • momwrhsc go read the post about me getting married in mexico and itll explain alot about my situation
    diamondmamma

    Answer by diamondmamma at 3:52 PM on Apr. 9, 2009

  • My so is still legally married. She ran off with another man. That was nine? years ago. I don't consider it cheating but why don't people just get divorced? It really doesn't make sense to me. I'm divorced so I've been there.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:53 PM on Apr. 9, 2009

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