I have an almost 3 year old little boy. I'm seriously about to pull my hair out.
I feel like I'm doing everything and he still gets into everything and just won't listen.
Most of the time, I remain pretty calm. But there are times I do get a little frustrated.
He gets tons of attention and affection. I'm always doing stuff with him and try to include him in everything. Instead of harsh discipline, I try to reason with him.
I've done time outs and taking stuff away. I've done positive re-enforcement and praise and rewards.
Now that I have a new baby, it's so much harder, because I do have to turn my attention away from him to take care of the baby.
What else can I do? Is this typical for transitioning from being an only to have a brother? Is this age related? Would anyone like to join me for a valium and martini party?
( BTW- spanking is out of the question, my ODS already has an assertive and aggressive personality.)
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Answer by maggiemom2000 at 6:54 PM on Apr. 9, 2009
Answer by admckenzie at 7:56 PM on Apr. 9, 2009
Were is your DH in all this. You sound like a single Mom.. You have to be consistant with your discipline.You have to make him understand that you are the boss,,he is not. Every thing he does wrong has to have a consequence. Your on this earth do teach your children how to be good adults. Sometimes that means your kids are not going to like you. But being a good mom means your not your kids friend. Good luck
Answer by louise2 at 12:46 PM on Apr. 11, 2009