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What if you've cried wolf too many times?

What if you and your BF have broken up so many times and you've said to him repeatedly that you wanted to end it, and in like, 1000 different ways. And now, you really do want to end it, and you need him to understand that you really mean it now?......how would you say it now, and make it believable???

Because, I really don't want this relationship anymore...And, now it just sounds like i'm crying wolf again....And, this time...I'm really not!!!

How would you say it and mean it???

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 8:32 PM on Apr. 9, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (7)
  • Its not in what you say. Its in your actions.

    Do you have kids together? If so it will make it more difficult, but still doable. In the event of visitations and such, no personal meetings. Exchange the children at the local police station. Keep calls about the kids about the kids.

    If no kids, then block his number, or change yours. Change your locks. Inform your job that you do not want to receive calls from him. Tell your family the same thing.

    Good Luck!
    CarolynBarnett

    Answer by CarolynBarnett at 8:36 PM on Apr. 9, 2009

  • I'd just leave. Actions speak louder than words.

    legalmommy101

    Answer by legalmommy101 at 8:36 PM on Apr. 9, 2009

  • you actually follow through on it. you don't take him back, or let him take you back or whatever. pack your stuff (if you live together) walk out the door and don't look back. if he is the father of your children than he gets to see them but that doesn't mean you have to spend time with him. just leave.
    vabchmommy

    Answer by vabchmommy at 8:37 PM on Apr. 9, 2009

  • ****************************Response************************************


    No, we have no children........and we do not live together

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:51 PM on Apr. 9, 2009

  • ignore his calls, emails, messages
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 8:58 PM on Apr. 9, 2009

  • just dont talk to him thats the only way he will know you are serious
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:01 PM on Apr. 9, 2009

  • Just tell him and don't call him. Don't answer his calls, or keep them short and to the point. No chit-chat or talk of missing him!!! Don't see him. Avoid any place you might run into him, or if you can't, stay away from him if you are in the same place. If you're up to it, start dating.
    drowninginboys

    Answer by drowninginboys at 9:14 PM on Apr. 9, 2009

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